Message of greeting to International Gathering of Equipes Notre-Dame
Below is the Pope's message of greeting to the XIth International
Gathering of the Equipes Notre-Dame, signed by Cardinal Secretary of State, Tarcisio
Bertone.
Most Reverend Eminence
The Supreme Pontiff, advised of
the event in Brasilia of the XIth International Gathering of the Equipes
Notre-Dame, has asked me to convey to you this message of paternal greeting to the
participants and to all couples from the Movement, which was born of the farsighted
pastoral intuition of the servant of God, Henri Caffarel, priest, whose mission has
continued to grow over time, through its relevance and urgency. On the other hand,
in some ways, it has increasingly confronted the problems and difficulties that marriage
and the family are experiencing today in an atmosphere of increasing secularisation.
In
this context, couples of the Equipes Notre-Dame proclaim, not only in words, but also
through their lives, the fundamental truths about human love and its deeper significance.
"A man and a woman in love, a child's smile, peace in the home: this is a sermon without
words, but extraordinarily persuasive, in which each person can already sense, transparently,
the reflection of another love and its infinite appeal." (Paul VI, to the couples
of the Equipes Notre-Dame, May 4, 1970)
Of course, this ideal may seem rather
high. This is why the movement encourages its members to constantly drink from the
fountains of grace of the sacrament of marriage, and participation at Sunday Mass;
beyond the resource of grace from the sacraments, it provides them with great wisdom,
a "method" rich in commitments and simple and practical ideas to daily live an embodied
spirituality for Christian spouses. Among these, we can highlight "the Sit Down",
that is to say, a commitment to maintain a regular time for personal dialogue between
the spouses, in which each presents to the other, with all sincerity and in a climate
of mutual listening, the issues and topics most important to life as a couple. In
our world, so marked by individualism, activism, eagerness and distraction, sincere
and constant dialogue between the spouses is essential to avoid the emergence of misunderstandings
that grow and harden and that, unfortunately, often end up with insoluble fractures
that no one can help to repair. So, cultivate this precious habit of sitting down
one beside the other to talk and listen so that you understand each other, constantly,
coping with the surprises and difficulties along the way.
In three months,
we will commemorate the fiftieth anniversary of the opening of the Second Vatican
Council, that in many of its documents offered the Church of our time a renewed face
of the value of human love, of married and family life; on this occasion we will begin
the Year of Faith, to rediscover all the strength and joy to proclaim the faith in
our world and in our time. His Holiness Benedict XVI invites Christian couples to
be "the gentle and smiling face of the Church", the best and most convincing heralds
of the beauty of love sustained and nourished by faith, a gift of God offered with
generosity and magnanimity to all, so that every day, they can discover the meaning
of their lives. As a sign of ecclesiastic gratitude and an incentive for the new challenges
that we face and as a guarantee of graces and lights from the Most High for the work
of the XIth World Gathering of the Equipes Notre-Dame, the Holy Father
grants to all participants and their respective families, his much awaited Apostolic
Blessing.
I take advantage of this opportunity, to testify to Your Most Reverend
Eminence all my sentiments of my fraternal esteem in Christ.
The Vatican,
5 July 2012
Tarcisio Cardinal Bertone Secretary of State for His Holiness