Bishop Paul Swain of Sioux Falls, South Dakota, is making his first ad limina
visit to Rome. On Friday morning, Bishop Swain, with the other Bishops from Regions
VII-IX of the U.S. Episcopal Conference, met with Pope Benedict XVI . Bishop Swain
spoke to us about the Pope’s message for the visiting prelates.
He said the
Pope’s address on marriage and the family focused on two areas: education and the
virtue of chastity. “I think two things [the Pope] said is that we [bishops] need
to be better teachers, and to form those who haven’t been formed yet… The message
is the same: We need to teach better, and to form, particularly the young.”
Bishop
Swain said the Pope also spoke about marriage and family: “The underpinning of healthy
families and strong marriages is a healthy understanding of human sexuality. And [the
Pope] focused a bit on the necessity to raise up, in perhaps a new way, the virtue
of chastity. And if we live the virtue of chastity, it affects so many other areas,
particularly in family and married life.” Chastity, the bishop explained, “comes
down to respecting one another in families and out of families.” Within families,
he said, “there also needs to be respect for the spouses, one for the other.”
Pope
Benedict also warned about “the powerful political and cultural currents seeking to
alter the legal definition of marriage.” Bishop Swain said, “Certainly in many states,
and in many different ways, there’s this political pressure to endorse same-sex marriages
as being equivalent to the marriage of one man and one woman for life, which is the
teaching of the Church.” He said the political battles can confuse the issue: “It’s
dynamic, it’s become so political. We sometimes miss what the real element is, which
is, ‘How are we respectful of what God has created for us for our own good?’ And it’s
a very difficult challenge because of the media and the political tensions that are
part of this discussion.”
Finally, Bishop Swain spoke about his own experience
of coming to Rome to meet with the Holy Father: “What has happened here, at least
for me, is to recognise that it isn’t about me at all. It isn’t about what I have
to deal with. It’s about being faithful to the office of bishop to which I have been
called, even though I am unworthy… we’re called to be faithful to the office that
we have been invited to by Christ, through His Vicar. So it kind of broadens the sense
of what being a bishop is all about. It isn’t about me, it isn’t about us, it’s about
being faithful.”
Listen to the interview of Sioux Falls Bishop Paul
Swain with Christopher Wells: